Married at First Sight

Now, I may be completely misinterpreting this but did the “experts” pretty much tell Ryan he has to have sex with his partner even if he doesn’t want to?

For context, Ryan doesn’t want to have sex in the morning before going to the gym in an effort to sustain his testosterone and Jacqui has an issue with this.

The “experts” solution was for Ryan to pleasure her without him having to release any testosterone. Um, how about no?

He’s told her he doesn’t want to. Whatever the reason is, no means no. I found this to be absolutely ridiculous that they would encourage someone to have (any kind of) sexual relations when they didn’t want to.

Now, I don’t particularly like either of them but in any situation, when a male or female says no, it’s no.

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This whole season has been a total letdown.

Honestly, the experts this year have been pretty disappointing. They completely overlooked Adrian’s behavior while being overly critical of Awhina. Then there’s the whole Carina and Paul situation, which they mishandled entirely. And don’t even get me started on their silence when Clint spoke to Jamie the way he did. To top it off, they called Jamie out but let Carina, Rhi, and Veronica off the hook regarding the whole Jamie, Lauren, and Carina drama.

Eliot looking like a saint at the moment compared to Lauren originally. How much of it was edited or we didn’t see.

Carina, I really don’t get how you’re okay with your husband punching a hole in the wall and calling it “European passion,” but you’ve got a problem with Jamie calling her aggressive? Who is also European. While calling the group “mean girls”. Make sense of that.

EPISODE 26 Feedback Week.

It’s the morning after the fifth Commitment Ceremony and our couples are processing LAUREN and CLINT’s fiery exit from the Experiment. At the retreat, LAUREN caused a rift amongst several of the wives, including between CARINA and JAMIE. This morning, however, CARINA is once again feeling at peace with her friend, after Expert Alessandra helped JAMIE come to terms with her behaviour and she apologised to CARINA. CARINA now feels ready to once again focus on her marriage and is feeling optimistic about the future. JAMIE is also hopeful for her marriage with DAVE, after revealing last night to the Experts that she had told DAVE she loves him. RHI and JEFF also admitted to the experts that they were falling in love with each other and JEFF is excited for a future with RHI.

Today, all of the couples will take on Feedback Week. For the first stage of Feedback Week, the Experts are re-introducing the Partner Swap. Participants will move in with a newly assigned partner for three days to gain a fresh perspective on their marriage from someone else in the Experiment. Many of the participants are excited by the news, including ELIOT to be pairing up with RHI, TEEJAY with CARINA, and JACQUI to be paired with JEFF. BETH and RYAN, however, are both disgruntled with the idea of being paired together. Also, after finding out AWHINA and PAUL are to be paired together, CARINA is upset. The bride reveals that her husband PAUL used to date AWHINA’s twin sister Cleo, which on top of an already uncomfortable situation for CARINA, is making her discomfort even worse.

The time comes for the participants to pack and swap, and AWHINA is accepting of the idea of moving in with her friend PAUL. CARINA, however, is only growing more concerned over the idea of AWHINA moving in with her husband. With CARINA in tears, AWHINA arrives at her apartment, and CARINA reluctantly begins packing, unsure whether she will take part at all.

As the remaining participants settle into the new partner arrangements, RYAN and BETH are immediately at odds. Meanwhile, JACQUI finds JEFF extremely hospitable immediately steaming her dress on arrival. RHI and ELIOT undertake the first task during the Partner Swap, the hard-hitting questions task. This task leads both to dish out hard truths about their respective relationships. Despite struggling to connect with his wife VERONICA, ELIOT is receptive to RHI’s advice about making small gestures to give his wife affection and is hopeful this can lead to positive changes in his marriage. While receiving advice from her swapped partner DAVE, VERONICA is more cynical about the hopes for her and her husband ELIOT’s future together.

After more time to process, CARINA decides to participate in the partner swap task and moves in with TEEJAY – who is quick to make the bride feel right at home.

PAUL begins the hard-hitting questions task by seeking AWHINA’s opinion on whether, after witnessing CARINA’s reaction to the partner swap, AWHINA believes CARINA is a jealous person or not. PAUL then reveals to AWHINA that she is the last bride CARINA wanted to stay in her apartment. AWHINA eventually admits that CARINA may be a jealous person and suggests that PAUL may run into issues in his marriage if CARINA’s jealous tendencies ‘rear their ugly head’.

As the couples settle in for the first night with their swapped partners, BETH and RYAN remain at odds, while RYAN’s wife JACQUI continues to be pampered by JEFF, this time with a home-cooked dinner. The following morning, CARINA and TEEJAY and AWHINA and PAUL take on the Expert’s second task, the Honesty Letter. It’s a chance for the participants to write a letter to their spouses revealing a concern they’ve had trouble voicing within their marriages. By reading it to their swapped partner, the Experts are hopeful it can help the participants confront any deep-seated issues in their relationships and move past them.

CARINA writes about her concerns that PAUL may not be on the same page in terms of raising a child with the same religious values as her. PAUL uses the task to voice concerns about a comment CARINA made to him in confidence, namely that CARINA called Cleo ‘low calibre’ and labels CARINA a snob. As Cleo happens to be AWHINA’s twin sister, AWHINA is naturally outraged and promises to hold CARINA accountable for her judgemental comment.

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Think I’d rather be in the company of the “boganics” than Lauren. Where did they find this woman? Hope she’s being paid big appearance money to make such an ass of herself! At first I thought Clint was a decent person but unfortunately he got sucked in by her bullshit.

Didn’t I tell you there was something off with Dave.

EPISODE 28: Dinner Party 6

As the sixth Dinner Party approaches, tonight our couples will reunite following Feedback Week, which saw the re-introduction of the Partner Swap phase into the Experiment.

For lovebirds JEFF and RHI, their time away from each other further solidified how strong their relationship is in the experiment. Meanwhile, RYAN has woken up still seething over JACQUI’s Honesty Letter which questioned his career, financial abilities and whether he is willing to be a stay-at-home dad. Another Honesty Letter that caused friction this week was VERONICA’s, as her letter emphasised the comparison between grooms ELIOT to DAVE…and not in a good way. As a result, ELIOT is getting ready for tonight’s Dinner Party alone and the two are finding it hard to reconcile.

Down the hall, AWHINA has an axe to grind with CARINA after finding out from PAUL that CARINA made a disparaging remark about her twin sister. Meanwhile, CARINA is feeling betrayed by PAUL and is anxious to see AWHINA tonight.

As most of our couples make their way to tonight’s Dinner Party, there is one couple who have yet to depart. After spending Feedback Week with ADRIAN, JAMIE has been left questioning DAVE’s level of attraction and overall feelings towards her. This morning, JAMIE is hoping for some reassurance from DAVE but instead he makes a shock confession, explaining his feelings aren’t progressing in the relationship. The pair leave for the Dinner Party in separate cars.

At the Cocktail Party, visibly hurt and upset, JAMIE downloads to the other couples, explaining DAVE’s coldness and how he expressed his feelings aren’t progressing for her. DAVE then enters the room, explaining himself to some of the grooms before dinner is served.

As tensions simmer at the dinner table, an anxious CARINA pulls AWHINA to the side to apologise for her “calibre” comment about her twin sister. CARINA explains that the comment came from a place of insecurity and apologises, which AWHINA accepts. As they bury the hatchet, PAUL joins CARINA for a one-on-one chat, hoping that CARINA is now feeling better about the situation. However, CARINA stands her ground and tells PAUL she is feeling betrayed and that he threw her under the bus with AWHINA. PAUL can’t see her point of view, leaving CARINA questioning their relationship.

Back at the table, JEFF notices a happy, loved up JACQUI and RYAN. He decides to question RYAN on how he felt about JACQUI’s Honesty Letter. RYAN thinks that the letter was garbage, however JACQUI thinks the letter worked.

Attention turns to JAMIE and DAVE. JAMIE unpacks her version of events, from Feedback Week with ADRIAN, to DAVE’s coldness this morning where he broke her heart and left her questioning who she’s been married to. Everyone, including the Experts, can see that this is a different DAVE. As JAMIE wants answers, DAVE stands firm that he’s just not at the same level of feelings as her, causing JAMIE to break down in tears. Despite their best efforts to try to gain some insight into DAVE’s sudden change, the group aren’t convinced by his answers or demeanour. ADRIAN starts to wonder what impact DAVE’s time with VERONICA had on his relationship with JAMIE? DAVE and VERONICA shut down this idea and assert that that’s not at all what has happened.

The group keeps digging and wants to know if DAVE wants to fight for this relationship. He says yes and tells JAMIE how special she is to him. JAMIE puts it to DAVE, if you want this relationship and me as your partner, prove it.

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This is how they are trying to paint it to us but I don’t think it needs to be so black and white. Jamie saying that only she has ever initiated anything sexual surely should have been alarm bells a while ago? Then after professing she loves him, tonight it sounded like the only acceptable outcome from her perspective was to get it back in return. It is also very possible that he was into her initially but over time he’s gone off her with all the loudness and drama. She is a big personality.

It’s very obvious he’s “into” Veronica! Seems like we’ll get the usual MAFS average success rate of 1 couple.

Jeff and Rhi look like the most likely to still be together. I thought Teejay and Beth seem good too but maybe not after Sunday’s promo.

Agreed, they seem like they will be the only couple. I don’t think Teejay and Beth will last. IMO he is just after more reality “fame”.

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9 need to take advantage of the longevity and strength of this series. I’m thinking a ‘MAFS where are they now’ 1 hour weekly episode where they catch up with past contestants and couples. Could even be a good Sat night filler show…

The Australian reports

Nine Entertainment has unleashed its lawyers on content creator and podcaster Joshua Fox after he confronted Married at First Sight expert John Aiken on the streets of Sydney. Fox, known for his popular MAFS-themed social media content, filmed the exchange and uploaded it online – prompting swift legal action from the network.

Fox’s exchange with Aiken can be heard on this episode of MAFS Funny podcast.

How ridiculous, Nine just wasting money here since they know they’ve got a much bigger wallet than Josh.

His questions seem very valid, and no different to any of their ACA pavement chasing journalists chasing down people for a story, seems Nine doesn’t like being the story here when there are real concerns and issues being raised about this behemoth of a show.

Josh posted a video of the exchange on his socials below, IMO John came off looking like a bit of a smug prick, fair few comments from former MAFS contestants too.

In the latest ep of my investigative pod series, I shine a spotlight on the MAFS relationship “experts” and the ethical issues Dr Trisha Stratford raised before quitting in 2021. After having my questions ignored over email, I put them to John Aiken in real life. Despite greeting me by name and with a hand shake, repeatedly asking “what else I have” while refusing to answer anything and then laughing and filming me from his phone as he hid in a nearby restaurant, he has since accused me, via Channel Nine, of “harassment, intimidation and being threatening”. Which I strongly dispute. Asking a public figure reasonable questions that are of public interest, at a time when there’s a police and government investigation into the show they’ve been the face of for 10 years, is journalism - and an approach made famous by Channel Nine’s very own A Current Affair. For full transparency though, I have included the unedited audio of the entire exchange in the podcast.

EPISODE 30: Homestays

The aftershocks of an intense Commitment Ceremony are reverberating around the group. JAMIE and DAVE are still in separate apartments following their recent implosion, but the other couples are hopeful DAVE will fight to bring the relationship back from the brink.

Meanwhile CARINA and PAUL are also recovering from a setback, after PAUL shared a comment she made in confidence about fellow bride AWHINA’S twin, Cleo.

But despite some of the couples struggles, the mood in most apartments is upbeat, as the couples prepare for the Experiment’s next phase – Homestays. For BETH, this will be the first time she’s ever brought a man home to meet her parents. For JACQUI and RYAN, it will be the ultimate test as they try to reach a compromise in values and lifestyle. And for AWHINA and ADRIAN, the pair prepares for a second face to face meeting with AWHINA’S twin, Cleo in hometown Perth.

For JAMIE and DAVE, JAMIE continues to grapple with the developments of the past week. Armed with not one, but two bunches of flowers DAVE knocks on her door declaring he is ready to give things another go, but can JAMIE find it in herself to commit to the next stage of the Experiment and embark on Homestays together?

Having arrived in Perth and following a decision not to introduce ADRIAN to her son, AWHINA is continuing to tread carefully with her husband, who reveals he is not looking forward to seeing AWHINA’s twin sister again. As the couple revisits what happened at the disastrous friends and family meeting over a tray of muffins, it becomes apparent ADRIAN is still wanting an apology from Cleo, meanwhile, AWHINA wants him to let it go.

On the other side of the city at her parents’ place, CARINA and PAUL are facing a different challenge, CARINA’s Italian family’s strong religious beliefs, which see the couple relegated to separate bedrooms.

Meanwhile, JACQUI and RYAN are at her place in Manly dealing with the far more superficial topic of RYAN’S facial hair, as she resurrects yet another enduring disagreement – why he will not shave his beard off. The heated debate continues in circles until it reaches a stalemate in the backyard, proving just how easy it is for the fun holiday vibes of JACQUI’S beloved suburb, Manly, to elude them.

JAMIE and DAVE have made it to Melbourne, but only on the condition they stay in their own apartments, as JAMIE is still processing their relationship. Feeling sad and lonely she reflects on the roller-coaster of the past week, wishing she could go back to the start of her once-happy marriage.

Back in Perth, CARINA and PAUL are meeting his biggest fan, CARINA’S Aunty Maria, who continues her keen interest in the details of their relationship. But it’s not long before the topic of religion resurfaces, and CARINA’s family makes clear the importance Catholicism has on their family and way of life leaving PAUL wondering if he’s open to it or not.

Even more tense is the lunch at AWHINA’S mums, as Cleo and ADRIAN settle into a terse back and forth about the couple’s chances of a future outside the Experiment, given they live in different cities, neither is willing to move. Frustrated by ADRIAN’s ongoing reluctance to show up for her sister, Cleo takes matters into her own hands and suggests a one on one. Both air their honest opinions about Friends and Family Week and each other – but will ADRIAN get the apology he’s hoping for?

Finally, in Melbourne JAMIE and DAVE get to spend some time together with the presence of JAMIE’S sister Georgia. Armed with difficult questions and a direct attitude, Georgia attempts to drill down on how DAVE really feels and why her sister has been left blindsided in this experiment.

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EPISODE 31: Homestays

As Homestays continue, some couples blossom. In Perth, CARINA and PAUL take a romantic dip in the ocean and reflect on the strength of their relationship. RHI and JEFF arrive at JEFF’S Melbourne apartment where they acknowledge how far they have come second time round.

Meanwhile, JAMIE and DAVE are navigating a challenging Homestay. With JAMIE harbouring doubts about DAVE’S feelings towards her, the couple have spent the first few nights in separate apartments. When they meet at a pub, JAMIE expresses her need for reassurance to DAVE, who admits fault and confesses his true feelings for her, resolving to put more effort into showing JAMIE how much he really cares.

In Sydney, JACQUI and RYAN travel from JACQUI’S apartment in coastal Manly to RYAN’S place in the Southwest suburbs. For RYAN, JACQUI’S appreciation of the house he has worked hard for is essential, but JACQUI is moved to tears by RYAN’S clutter of nerdy collectables and bits and bobs.

BETH is thrilled to be bringing her first ever partner TEEJAY to her family home in Brisbane. BETH hopes their recent intimacy is a sign that TEEJAY’S romantic feelings towards her are developing.

Things move forward in Melbourne when DAVE moves into JAMIE’S apartment and JAMIE is reassured by his presence and affection. However, over at RYAN’S house in Sydney, JACQUI writes a to-do list of ways he could improve his living space, and despite RYAN laughing it off, he feels judged.

ADRIAN and AWHINA reflect on their Homestay while picnicking on a Perth beach. ADRIAN clashed with AWHINA’S twin sister Cleo, but he has otherwise enjoyed his time in AWHINA’S home city. He suggests they try long distance after the experiment, and AWHINA feels positive about their prospects.

BETH’S best friend Darcey joins BETH, her family and TEEJAY for a roast dinner. But it is TEEJAY who gets roasted when Darcey challenges his use of the word “friendship” to describe his relationship with BETH. In a private conversation with BETH, Darcey calls nonsense on TEEJAY’S empty words. BETH’S previous insecurities about the relationship resurface.

The following day, BETH and TEEJAY spend time with TEEJAY’S friends. TEEJAY shares that for him their relationship is lacking what he needs. BETH leaves the table in shock. Out of BETH’S earshot, TEEJAY confides that if he had to make a choice right now, he would end the relationship. BETH confronts TEEJAY about his revelation during lunch and he reiterates that he is unsure about their future together, leaving BETH distraught.

JEFF rounds off a happy homestay by giving RHI a key to his apartment, cementing their commitment to one another. Also ending positively are JAMIE and DAVE, who visit DAVE’S Dad. It’s an emotional visit as they celebrate a turning point in DAVE’s Dads cancer treatment. The occasion proves to JAMIE that DAVE really cares, and she feels positive about returning to Sydney as a couple.

Back in Sydney, A bush walk turns testy when JACQUI challenges RYAN about his preferred dog walking technique, RYAN has had it with her constantly critiquing him. JACQUI and RYAN meet their friends at a Southwest Sydney pub. The occasion takes a turn when RYAN’S friends Adam and Karla have a go at JACQUI for her condescending behaviour towards RYAN. JACQUI breaks down in tears and storms off.

Tomorrow

Daily Mail Australia can reveal that the luxurious Manly property she welcomed Ryan Donnelly into on Monday night was actually a rented Airbnb.

The 29-year-old jewellery store owner returned to the Northern Beaches for the episode and was filmed rolling her suitcase through the front door of what was supposedly her home.

However, the property was in fact a $200-a-night Airbnb rental.

A voiceover described the residence as ‘Jacqui’s home’, but in reality it was a two-story rental arranged by producers.

The deception didn’t end there either, as it was also a completely different home from the one shown during her wedding backstory.

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Does anyone proofread at Daily Mail anymore, or just looking for the headline?

What if she identified as an AirBNB :stuck_out_tongue: