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Unfortunately mental health concerns often go hand in hand (are ‘comorbid’) with ASD. I think this is simply because the world is geared towards ‘neurotypicals’ (I dislike that word also, as it implies that individuals with ASD are atypical and need to be ‘fixed’). It’s a difference rather than a disability.
I echo the above post and hope that you can find the support that you need. Please don’t give up what you enjoy, including radio.
Hoping all are well,
I only got a diagnosis for Autism (High Functioning) in my early/mid 20s.
I think however, that even though with the late diagnosis, it wasn’t all bad as I felt as I was able to push through in my earlier life and achieve things without the pressure of me thinking, ‘Oh I can’t do this because of my Autism’.
I like to think it as a X-Men power anyways as I have a gift of remembering all frequencies and stations on said frequencies after seeing or hearing of it once.
As most things, these mind quirks come in threes, so add Dyslexia and ADHD (to be formally diagnosed this month) into the mix, makes life definitely is fun.
Thats a great way of looking at it. I see my whole career in radio as a result of my total and utter fixation when I was younger. Yes, some dont accept you, but the ones that do are the ones that share the passion.
Hell ive been running my own internet station all through high school and then when I got into the commercial space, I bothered the management so hard I got my own DAB station but it has to fly under the radar as being “just the tech”. Think they might have just done it to shut me up haha. But i digress. I have had a rough time of late but I think things are looking up now.
its still on dab, but I dont want to say in public because of social media policy and i think management might get pissed if i say it. feel free to PM, and by the way Starter FM is kick ass
My partner has just been diagnosed with Autism in his late 20’s after not being to hold down a job.
We’ve now been able to get some help under NDIS which has improved things somewhat. It is nice the resources he has access to but some of the services thru Centrelink are really lacking. I feel we’ve gone backwards a little bit rather than forwards but I’m trying to be a good partner and stay positive.
Single income is hurting finances a little, but it’s not forever right?
I know that’s what I have,there’s not as many females who have this problem though.
I’m still amazed that I managed to survive in the workforce for almost 40 years but of course I was very limited to what sort of work I could do as I only went to Year 10 in high school, so I was only able to work in manufacturing.Having difficulty mixing with people and making friends has always and still is a challenge for me.
I feel I’ve become less tolerant in my older years of crowded places,and people talking and laughing too loud is like fingernails on a chalkboard to me now.I can only cope on public transport or in a cafe /foodcourt these days is by wearing my AirPods .
I’m also aware that not going out at all isn’t good for me either so that’s why I enjoy my 3-4 days a week at the RSPCA.My volunteer work is behind the scenes either working with cats or in the laundry room ,that is what I prefer.It helps too that I’ve met many great people in my time there so far who I feel comfortable with and can talk to,whether they’re fellow volunteers or staff members.We’re all there because we like animals.
ASD is notoriously under diagnosed in females; for a long time it was seen as an almost exclusively male condition. It likely presents in different ways in females as well.
@TheChase - I thought I was the only one who could memorise radio station frequencies I was certainly the only one at my school.
Yes I understand all too well,I have and have always had bad anxiety,I wouldn’t have been able to work in a high paying stressful career.My depression was very bad too in the months before I retired,that’s why I’d used up all my sick leave it’s no longer an issue these days (apart from worrying about running out of money,)I might be able to reduce my anxiety meds in the future,I’d get advice from my doctor first though